Do I have it? Do the girls who would rather hang out and talk about music, pop culture, video games, and general nonsense have sex appeal? Do the girls who take less than a thought when it comes to getting ready have it?
That is a question unique to each different person, I'm sure.
Sex appeal is everywhere. I'm focusing on female sex appeal, mostly but this applies to men too. The picture of tall, slender yet toned scruffy men in magazines. Tall, slender, and curvy in just the right places (or nowhere) women all over the place.
How much sex appeal is too much and how much is not enough? There is that saying, "shake what your mamma gave ya" but... what If i just don't want to?
What If I would rather put on a pair of jeans and a t-shirt than take an hour getting ready? Sex appeal: minimal. No matter how I look those girls that walk in completely done up will get the attention. Those are the "hot girls."
Eventually every person comes to terms with who they are. I could straighten my hair, take a little longer to get ready, and buy a few less t-shirts... but, then I wouldn't be having as much fun.
It's cool to get done up once in awhile and rake in all of the attention, but after some time it just gets old. I can only giggle at what some dumb random guy is saying for so long.
A really good example is parties. Richmond Parties. Moderate amount of people: lots of dudes and the few random group of girls floating around. Where do I mingle? With the guys I stand out because, well... I'm a girl. With a lot of the girls I stand out, because, well... There's only so much you can talk about before you get to topics that just don't cross the barriers. Worldwide girl topics that you stick to: Boys, Hair, Makeup, Clothing, Jewelry, Pop music, and bad television. Now, I like all of those things... But, only for so long.
It's like in this article I read in Psychology Today. There are things about yourself you are very aware about and there are blind spots that only other people can see. Maybe I am too self-aware. Or maybe I am not at all.
Tuesday, March 2, 2010
My favorite man whore has decided to try and win a trip AROUND THE freaking WORLD! He needs votes, though. There is no registration required, all you have to do is just click a button. Vote and pass the link on!
The girl friend.
The girl friend.